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When Everything Feels Too Much đź’­

Support for Emotional Overload in Plymouth

There are times in life when everything can feel overwhelming. Stress builds, worries pile up, and emotions become harder to manage. If you’ve been feeling this way, you are not alone – and it does not mean you are failing.

Emotional overload is a natural response when your mind and body are carrying more than they have the space to process. Work pressures, relationship difficulties, family responsibilities, or ongoing anxiety can all contribute to this sense of being “too full” emotionally.

What Is Emotional Overload?

Emotional overload happens when stress and difficult feelings accumulate over time. You may notice:

  • Feeling constantly overwhelmed or exhausted
  • Struggling to focus or make decisions
  • Irritability or emotional outbursts
  • Anxiety, worry, or low mood
  • A sense of being “stuck” or unable to cope

These are signals from your mind and body that something needs attention – not criticism.

A Simple First Step: Pause and Check In

When everything feels too much, the first step isn’t to solve everything at once. It is simply to pause.

Take a moment to gently ask yourself:

  • What am I feeling right now?
  • What do I need in this moment?

Naming your emotions – even quietly to yourself – can help create a sense of space and calm. From there, small steps forward begin to feel more manageable.

How Counselling Can Help

Talking to a trained counsellor can make a meaningful difference when you are feeling overwhelmed. Counselling provides:

  • A safe, confidential space to talk openly
  • Support in understanding your thoughts and feelings
  • Help identifying patterns and stress triggers
  • Guidance in finding healthier ways to cope
  • A steadier, more grounded path forward

You do not have to carry everything on your own.

Counselling Support in Plymouth

At Personal & Relationship Counselling Plymouth, we understand how heavy life can feel at times. Whether you are dealing with anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, or emotional overwhelm, we are here to support you.

We offer a free 15-minute phone conversation, giving you the chance to talk things through and decide if counselling feels right for you.

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Hidden Stories

In this book, “The Myth of Normal”, Gabor MatĂ© suggests that there are often “hidden stories” behind our difficulty or inability to say no. And he suggests that they come from ” limiting core beliefs about ourselves”, what transactional analysts call “Scripts” we learn in childhood, and live out afterwards. He suggests that the following are examples of familiar stories;

  1. Saying no means I can’t handle something. It’s a sign of weakness. I have to be strong.
  2. I have to be “good” to deserve being loved. If I say no, I’m not lovable.
  3. I’m responsible for how other people feel & what they experience. I mustn’t disappoint anyone.
  4. I’m not worthy unless I’m doing something useful.
  5. If people knew how I really felt, they wouldn’t like me.
  6. If I turned down my friend / spouse / colleague / parent / neighbour, I would feel deservedly guilty.
  7. It’s selfish to say no.
  8. It’s not loving to have anger.

Maybe we forget that they are only stories – we think and act as if they’re true!!!

Les Parsons, July 2024.